I recently wrote about the Bachelorette Party experience you can get at Calmness Hotline. But sometimes, things don't work the way we had hoped they would and unfortunately, the divorce can be the actual best day of our life. There is no shame in that. On the contrary, we believe you should honor this new beginning. And why not celebrate the best way possible : with Movement Wellness and Pole Dancing!
When Margaux told me about this idea of a Divorce Party, my first thought was OMG That's amazing! I've never been married, but when my previous relationship of 6 years ended, I felt the need to reconnect to my true self and figure out who I was, what I truly wanted. I know some people might see a divorce as a very sad moment. But you have the power to make it a beautiful experience.
THE OLD YOU VS THE NEW YOU
Who are you now? What are your needs? When you book for your Divorce Party, Margaux will give you all the tools you need to start a true reflexion on what you truly desire. You'll be able to redefine your aspirations and your limits.
You will have the chance to have a private Movement Wellness session, in which you will be asked to connect to your embodied self. You can do this solo or with a very few close friends. This is a very personal experience, but having a strong support system can absolutely be great for this meditative exploration.
Very often, divorce occurs because boundaries have been crossed or ignored. By letting your emotions flow though your movement, you will have a better sense of what your boundaries are now and how you'll let others treat you in the future.
LET'S GET PHYSICAL
Divorce is a form of grief, as you are contemplating those parts of the past that were comforting but became a source of discomfort. Feeling is important. But letting everything out is also part of the process.
That's why your Divorce Party can also includes a Pole or Hammock session, you choose. No experience necessary, you will learn basic tricks just to feel the true power you hold within yourself.
Pole Dance is a beautiful way to get in touch with your femininity and connect with your sexuality, for yourself only. Away from outside gaze, you can let yourself be sensual in the only way that matters : your own. Heels are optional, but they can be a powerful tool on the path of understanding your inner strength.
I hope I convinced you that a divorce doesn't have to be sad. Yes, it's painful and complicated, but it's a fresh start with a wiser version of yourself. The Divorce Party would also be a great gift to offer to a friend who's going through it all alone, a perfect symbol to show you're there no matter what.
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